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Seven men we’d like to date

June 27th, 2010 | Category: Personal

Being single affords you the chance to get to know all sorts of people. When you’re not in a rush to find “the one,” you can enjoy learning scads of new things from the men you date. You don’t have to limit yourself to types who fit the specific criteria of what you’re looking for in a life partner. We encourage all singles to date as many different types of people as pique your interest and curiosity.

We’re not saying you have to settle down into a serious relationship or get intimate with every man you date. We are saying: Don’t let the opportunity of expanding your perspective and horizon pass you by. These are the men we’d all like to date at least once during our singlehood years.

A…Fireman. This is ultimate civic-hero type. He’s strong and a wears a protective suit because his job is so dangerous. Plus, he rides around in a big red firetruck saving lives and homes and cats that get stuck in trees. This no-fear gent boldly looks death right in the eye every time he heads into a flaming out-of-control fire. And he puts his life on the line in the name of protecting other people’s loved ones.

A…CIA Agent. Think Bond. James Bond. This secret-agent, sleuth-type can be trusted with the nation’s secrets and has all sorts of MacGyver-type moves up his sleeve. He’s resourceful, smart as a whip and a rapid-fire judge of character. You may not know what the heck he really does every day, who he is dealing with or the burden of top-secret information swimming around in his noggin. But you’ll enjoy helping him take a break from the heaviness of his work.

A…Chef. A man who has been trained to cook professionally and is concocting new taste sensations every day in the kitchen? Score. We’ll have an order of that. A chef is a man who is creative (ever dreaming up new food and spice combinations), sensual (a man who can take pleasure in the textures and tastes of food understands the power of the senses) and skilled with his hands (he can mince and dice like nobody’s business). Plus, every women adores a man who not only can cook but actually enjoys cooking.

A…Pilot. The thrill of the open sky never wears off. You can accompany your pilot on his flights across the nation and globe, exploring new geographic regions with him. What’s more, he has the whole Top Gun aspect going for him. Get him a pair of shades and a flight jacket and hit the town.

A…Yoga Instructor. He understands the importance of whole living and the mind-body connection. He’d never scoff at the word wellness. The two of you can rattle out some asanas and breathing exercises and get spiritual with it. This man also has lean, sculpted muscles with none of the tough-guy attitude that can sometimes accompany them.

A…Violinist. Well, you can fill in any musician you want here. This man is sentitive and attuned to his emotions. He is able to express himself in a unique way without words. He knows what it means to be passionate about a hobby. He fully gets the notions of practice and of discipline and has cultivated these two primo life skills. He’s talented. And he’ll play beautiful music for you.

A…Photographer. He sees things others just do not. He can use his eyes to experience the world in a refreshing way. He’ll challenge you to think out-of-the-box and urge you to embrace the change that is life in the now. He’s a risk-taker who knows how to suck the marrow out of every day. A no-rules kind of man, he may buck any idea of routine or rules-setting—but if you’re looking to charge your life with some electric energy, date this guy.

Source: Love Buzz

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Do you love Jesus?

June 25th, 2010 | Category: Personal

True love

June 19th, 2010 | Category: Personal

True love doesn’t have a happy ending. True love has no ending.

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How diamonds became synonymous with love

June 17th, 2010 | Category: Personal

Newly engaged women flaunt their “rocks,” Marilyn Monroe sang about “a girl’s best friend,” and being “iced” is the style on the streets. Diamonds have become American icons of wealth and refinement, and while there’s no question that the little gems are something special—diamond is the hardest natural substance known to man—their status today has much more to do with marketing strategy than any inherent quality, and being aware of their history will help you sparkle with both intelligence and style.

Manufacturing Rarity

Edward Jay Epstein, journalist and author of The Rise and Fall of Diamonds: The Shattering of a Brilliant Illusion (1982) and The Diamond Invention (1982), has written extensively about the origins of the diamond marketing strategy and the ways in which it has shaped our modern view of the gems. According to Epstein, diamonds were once a very rare commodity; until the middle of the 19th century, India and Brazil were the only two diamond-mining countries. But in 1867, a fifteen year-old discovered a diamond on his father’s farm on the south bank of the Orange River in South Africa and by 1882, African diamond mines produced more stones than both India and Brazil had in the previous 2,000 years. Suddenly, the market was flooded with diamonds, a problem for British financiers who controlled the mines because the price of the stones—which Epstein points out have no intrinsic value—depends entirely upon their scarcity.

Enter Cecil B. Rhodes, an eighteen-year-old asthmatic whose family sent him to South Africa in 1871 for his health. Together with his business partner Charles Rudd, they formed the De Beers Mining Company in 1880, and by 1888 had built a monopoly of South African diamond mines.

But Rhodes knew that controlling the diamond supply wasn’t enough; he had to control demand, too. He formed the Diamond Syndicate, an alliance of South African merchants who agreed to follow Rhodes’ lead in protecting their common interests: high prices and a public perception of scarcity. In 1926, a German immigrant named Ernest Oppenheimer bought De Beers and formed an even larger corporation, the Diamond Trading Company. Oppenheimer and his son, Harry, continued Rhodes’ efforts to create a worldwide monopoly. Especially after new discoveries of diamond reserves in Australia, Siberia, and Western Africa threatened to erode De Beers’ position as sole supplier, the Oppenheimers focused on maintaining the public perception of diamonds’ rarity by purchasing surpluses and launching a comprehensive advertising strategy.

Diamonds Are a Girl’s Best Friend

De Beers’ marketing strategy, at least by Epstein’s account of it, is alchemic: take a tiny carbon crystal and turn it into a universally-regarded symbol of love and prestige.

In America, where De Beers focused its marketing campaign in 1938 (Europe was on the verge of war), about three-quarters of diamond sales were already going toward engagement rings. But that wasn’t enough for Harry Oppenheimer; he wanted to make Americans buy more expensive diamonds. He traveled from Johannesburg to New York City to meet with Gerold M. Lauck, then-president of N.W. Ayer, the top U.S. ad agency at the time. After investigating the American diamond market, the Ayer staff recommended that De Beers strengthen the public’s association of diamonds with romance. Diamonds and love had to become inseparable; the finer the diamond, the greater and stronger the affection and regard.

Ayer chose the emerging medium of motion pictures to promote its message, encouraging movie stars to wear diamonds both on and off screen and movie studios to incorporate the stones into film scripts as symbols of everlasting love. Films and photographs showed Ginger Rogers, Katharine Hepburn, Bette Davis, and other female romantic leads, all paragons of elegance, decked in diamonds.

This psychological approach, in which advertisers indirectly formed an image around a product rather than directly pitching a brand, was the first of its kind. Thanks to Ayer, the sales of diamonds increased by 55 percent from 1938 and 1941 and the idea of the diamond as an indestructible symbol of romance, wealth, and power was firmly implanted in the American psyche.

A Diamond Is Forever

Creating an image is one thing; maintaining that image quite another. A key element of the De Beers business structure, according to Epstein, seems to be ensuring a stable market by preventing diamonds’ resale. In order to do so, and to expand the sale of diamonds beyond engagement rings, Ayer built a subsequent advertising campaign on the illusion that diamonds were “forever.”

A young Ayer copywriter named Frances Gerety wrote the caption “A Diamond Is Forever” in 1947 for a magazine ad depicting two newlyweds on their honeymoon. Within a year, the phrase became De Beers’ official slogan. Even though diamonds can actually be shattered, chipped, discolored, or incinerated, the company wanted to promote them as a lasting investment and symbol of eternal commitment.

The slogan served De Beers well in the mid-1960s, when the market again required restructuring to accommodate the discovery of diamond mines in Siberia. Once again, the challenge was to profit from the added supply without allowing a surplus to cause price fluctuations. (Oppenheimer cut a secret deal to create a single supply channel in exchange for Soviet partnership in the cartel.) There was also a problem of how to package the Soviet diamonds, almost all of which were under half a carat. Since De Beers had promoted large diamonds up to this point, there was no existing market for smaller stones.

To solve this problem, the company designed the “eternity ring” containing as many as twenty-five tiny diamonds for an entirely new market of older married women. The eternity ring was part of a larger strategy for small diamond sales, which emphasized quality, color, and cut over size, to promote the idea that all diamonds, regardless of size, signify everlasting love.

Diamonds in Conflict

Public attention on diamonds has been more negative in recent years. In 2000, the United Nations General Assembly unanimously adopted a resolution on conflict diamonds. And the 2006 film Blood Diamond brought the problem to mainstream audiences.

In Sierra Leone, Angola, Liberia, Zimbabwe, and the Democratic Republic of the Congo, rebel forces use rough diamond caches to finance arms purchases and other illegal activities that undermine peace efforts in these countries. They commit atrocities of murder, rape, and mutilation, ruling by terror. So far, international peace efforts have been unsuccessful; the only way to curb rebel factions seems to be cutting off their source of funds—diamonds.

As part of its 2000 resolution, the UN created the Kimberly Process Certification Scheme (KPCS), an attempt at regulating rough diamond trade. De Beers states that 100 percent of the diamonds it sells are now compliant with the Kimberly Process and its own Diamond Best Practice Principles. In a happy accident of symbiosis, the company reaps its own benefits from this policy; not only does the Kimberly Process relieve the consumer’s conscience, it also helps De Beers better control supply, an important part of its strategy from the beginning.

The Wealth of Knowledge

De Beers has proved its marketing strategy to be as powerful and resilient as the image of the diamond it’s created. And understanding all that has gone into making the diamond the icon it is today will help you make smarter choices about your jewels, especially when choosing an engagement ring. You may opt to break tradition and go for an emerald, ruby, sapphire instead or buying me the car by the end of this post. But if you do choose a diamond, be sure to purchase one that is conflict-free.

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Simple things in life: the kiss.

June 16th, 2010 | Category: Personal

Think you know a thing or two about kissing? You probably do. But the facts below are so off the beaten path, we’ll bet you don’t know them all—and they could come in handy. Not only could they provide some steamy “Did you know…?” chit chat, but they’ll help you see all the benefits a satisfying lip lock can bring into your life. Happy smooching!

1. Two out of every three couples turn their heads to the right when they kiss.

2. A simple peck uses two muscles; a passionate kiss, on the other hand, uses all 34 muscles in your face. Now that’s a rigorous workout!

3. Like fingerprints or snowflakes, no two lip impressions are alike.

4. Kissing is good for what ails you. Research shows that the act of smooching improves our skin, helps circulation, prevents tooth decay, and can even relieve headaches.

5. The average person spends 336 hours of his or her life kissing.

6. Ever wonder how an “X” came to represent a kiss? Starting in the Middle Ages, people who could not read used an X as a signature. They would kiss this mark as a sign of sincerity. Eventually, the X came to represent the kiss itself.

7. Talk about a rush! Kissing releases the same neurotransmitters in our brains as parachuting, bungee jumping, and running.

8. The average woman kisses 29 men before she gets married.

9. Men who kiss their partners before leaving for work average higher incomes than those who don’t.

10. The longest kiss in movie history was between Jane Wyman and Regis Tommey in the 1941 film, You’re in the Army Now. It lasted 3 minutes and 5 seconds. So if you’ve beaten that record, it’s time to celebrate!

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Nada Sei.

June 11th, 2010 | Category: MĂşsica

Nada sei dessa vida
Vivo sem saber
Nunca soube, nada saberei
Sigo sem saber…

Que lugar me pertence
Que eu possa abandonar
Que lugar me contém
Que possa me parar…

Sou errada, sou errante
Sempre na estrada
Sempre distante
Vou errando
Enquanto tempo me deixar
Errando
Enquanto o tempo me deixar…

Nada sei desse mar
Nado sem saber
De seus peixes, suas perdas
De seu nĂŁo respirar…

Nesse mar, os segundos
Insistem em naufragar
Esse mar me seduz
Mas Ă© sĂł prá me afogar…

Sou errada, sou errante
Sempre na estrada
Sempre distante
Vou errando
Enquanto o tempo me deixar
Errando
Enquanto o tempo me deixar…

Sou errada, sou errante
Sempre na estrada
Sempre distante
Sou errada, sou errante
Sempre na estrada
Sempre distante
Vou errando
Enquanto o tempo
Me deixar passar
Errando
Enquanto o tempo me deixar…

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Ser feliz Ă©..

June 07th, 2010 | Category: Personal

A felicidade nĂŁo consiste em adquirir nem em gozar, mas sim em nada desejar, consiste em ser livre. ~Epicteto

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Dança Chinesa.

June 05th, 2010 | Category: MĂşsica

A China me fascina nĂŁo Ă© a toa..

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Frases de fim de semestre.

June 01st, 2010 | Category: Personal

O cansaço físico, mesmo que suportado forçosamente, não prejudica o corpo, enquanto o conhecimento imposto à força não pode permanecer na alma por muito tempo.
~PlatĂŁo.

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